So I went online to a group of women I am part of--and I asked a question just to see if I was right...I had thought the group was beginning to get a bit negative. I was right more's the pity. Too bad--but I really can't deal with people who live in the negative. I surround myself with more positive people in general so I see no reason to populate my online presence with negative folks. I am still looking to find people like me--the ones with the gallows humor and able to laugh at the absurdities of death defying recovery.
I keep hearing my ob/gyn in my head, "you laughed your way through cancer." And indeed I did. So onward to finishing draft one of the book so I can find people who would naturally find my attitude refreshing and maybe even helpful.